Look beyond the obvious...Connecting the Dots

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Have you ever had something happen that shifted your thinking so completely? Well turning 60 did this for me. Never had a birthday bothered me. This one was different. My mom had died earlier that year and I was no longer someone’s child. Had no idea this would set me off on a new way of looking at my life.

A funnel shapeThe whole of my existence up until now was about expansion. Learning and growing up to step out into the adult world to have a career, a marriage, family, home, more education travel, acquiring of experiences and goodies. To be a productive, contributing human being. All of you have your version of this. For me life looked like this, ….. an ever expanding ‘V’

A diamond shapeAt 60 I literally felt the V turn back on itself to begin to look more like a diamond with the top of the diamond being my eventually death. It was a jarring realization. And I knew it was time to travel lighter. Mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually.

Several years later, an article on the December Years by Reb Zalman (Full name Zalman Schachter Shalomi) explained why I felt the way I had on the birthday. 60 heralds the beginning of the last third of our lives. It’s a distinct developmental stage of life and is a time of integrating whole of our lives. No wonder it felt so big!

It’s into the exploration and discovery of this time I now focus my coaching and work. If you are wanting to walk this rich and rewarding time with awareness, please give me a call.

To a joyful 3rd Act! Mary

I have had the privilege and pleasure of experiencing this unexpected insight into my own personal and professional leadership journey with Mary as my coach and mentor. Fostering the right balance in a relationship, she centers the discussion and is able to bring forward meaningful questions that drive to the heart of the subject, yet convey a wisdom that I believe is remarkable. Mary's creative approach pulled my career, home life and creative self into a collaborative journey that was transformational for me. Thank you Mary, you are the best.

Eleanor - former Dean NAIT
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Excellent adventures

Mary Johnson - Wednesday, October 10, 2018
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As I sit looking out at the grey skies and trees blowing in a cold breeze, it's hard to adjust to being back home. This wonderful collection of friends finished up our 7 week sojourn across Canada last Friday. The photo is taken on our last evening spent in Kenaston SK. I have written a few blogs along the way (Our big old countryLayers of rhythms , Challenging timesTime flies ). Mostly there was too much to see and do to spent time in front of the computer. 

We finished our Canadian leg of the journey in Niagara Falls. The Falls were spectacular**. The city not so much. After Quebec City it seemed rather cheesy. Still all part of the adventure! It was also the last of our amazing weather. We took a day off before we hunkered down into some long driving days. Wine, reading in tank tops and shorts. Oh how I miss that sun!

Our trip along hi way 2 through Michigan, Wisconsin, Minnesota and North Dakota was like a travelogue. Virtually no traffic, amazing fall colours. The reds, oranges, yellows an oh did I mention the reds! We were blown away by the scenery. Drove along the north shores of Lake Michigan and the south shores of Lake Superior. Our lakes around here are quaint by comparison! People were great. Lots of mention of Trump. :) 

As we got closer to home the talk turned to just how quickly this time went, the amazing take aways each of us had, how much we enjoyed  the sights and each other while exploring them. One of the fellows said, 'There are very few we could do this with. Lots of folks who are fun for a night or two. But we just travel so well together.' It's true! 

One night I realized we have been having 'Excellent adventures' that go back to nurse's training. That was where it began - excellent adventure #1. Then our first jobs after graduation were in Prince George B.C together. #2. We backpacked around Europe together. That's #3. Then came marriage and babies. We made a commitment to meet regularly - husbands, babies included, to share this rich and busy time with each other. #4 Then ten years ago the 6 of us went to England, Ireland and Wales together. It was an incredible time we still talk about. That's #5. The next ten years saw kids grow up, leave home and begin families of their own. Being Grandparents and sharing these times was a whole new, wonderful ball game and a big #6. Now this. #7. Our trip across Canada. 

Somehow we have become our own version of the Ya-Ya Sisterhood. Thank you Joy and Charlie, Don and Elaine and Neil the navigator! Here's to our next excellent adventure!

** A water fact. The amount of water in 1 tide cycle in the Bay of Fundy is equal to the amount of water that travels over Niagara Falls in 1 year and 9 months. Yes you read that right!     

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